Jonathan Falwell, son of Jerry Falwell and current pastor at his dad’s old church, has stated that “something is wrong in ministry.”
In an article on the Christian Post about Falwell’s Refuel Conference, it states that “Half of pastors would leave the ministry tomorrow if they could. Seventy percent are fighting depression and 90 percent can’t cope with the challenge of ministry.”
“The measurements of success are all messed up,” Falwell said.
So far, I would agree. The ministry is messed up. There are way too many pressures put on pastors that are totally unnecessary, unrealistic and unbiblical. Megachurch pastors are constantly putting themselves forward as those who have “done it right” and will even accuse pastors of small churches of being unfaithful to God. They say that if you just use the right techniques (like they have) you’ll have the same success they have. The very fact that you don’t have a massive membership or budget is an indication that you’re not doing enough. It’s an unrealistic expectation that many pastors know they can never meet.
Falwell states that pastors need to “start focusing on one person, one hurting person, who’s lost, … who’s desperate to hear the Gospel.” He believes that rather than focusing on hundreds or thousands, pastors should focus on one person at a time. He states, “Don’t make it about the lists, the fame, … the respect. Make it about the one.”
However, I believe that the focus on the “one” is the wrong one. The focus should be upon God, not any one person. There’s just as much pressure to get that one saved as there is to get one hundred saved. In fact, there’s probably more pressure. How many pastors have been beat up because they didn’t add one new member to their church last year? They’ve been told there are things holding them back and if they would just start certain programs, they would succeed.
These are the things that cause burnout in the ministry and trying to convert only one is no help. The fact is that pastors don’t convert people at all – God does. Pastors are supposed to be faithful, not successful. Pastors plant, others water, but God gives the increase. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a pastor preaching to the same congregation for years with zero numerical growth as long as he is faithfully preaching God’s Word. Those people who show up for worship week after week need Christ just as much as those who are lost without Christ.
A focus on Christ, not lost people, is the best remedy for a minister’s problems.